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Ruth Axtell: Graveyard Treasures

8/12/2012

 

This week we welcome Ruth Axtell to Author Memories.

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Ruth Axtell has loved stories set in the 19th century ever since she read Pride and Prejudice, Jane Eyre and other 19th century classics in junior and senior  school. Like many romance writers, Ruth decided to write her own in order to read the kind of story she liked best. Ruth has published 13 historical romances under the name Ruth Axtell Morren. 
Currently, Ruth lives on the downeast coast of Maine with her three children and two rescue cats. She enjoys the challenge of vegetable and flower gardening in a cool, foggy climate, long
walks along the Maine coast, reading, watching British period dramas like Downton Abbey, and doing historical research for her novels.
   


Graveyard Treasures
by Ruth Axtell

Names and family histories are interesting things. Here in New England, we have some pretty old gravestones in the local cemetery. It’s a shame to see many of the stones falling over after each winter. Many are covered in lichen, the inscriptions so worn they are hardly legible. 
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Neglected Headstones, New England, photo by Ruth Axtell
But it’s a great place to find historical names when one is writing about the area in the 1800s. For one of my first published books, Wild Rose, I found my heroine’s name, Geneva, off one of these gravestones. I pretended it was short for Genevieve. 
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Geneva, photo by Ruth Axtell
This past spring, my father died at the ripe old age of 100. My brother and I had not been to the family plot in Connecticut since we were teenagers, so we hardly even knew where it was. But when we went there for the funeral, I was fascinated to read the names of my father’s forefathers on his mother’s side: Hopsons, Cornwalls and Hubbells—all solid English names.
 
On my next trip I visited another family plot where my grandfather’s side of the family is buried. These were Pattersons (a surname I used in Wild Rose, making my heroine Geneva
Patterson).
 
Here in this part of Maine, there are some names that hark back to the founding of this village back in the 1700s: Cates, Maker, Ackley, Corbett are some of the surnames that appear on many gravestones. 
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Obed Cates, photo by Ruth Axtell
Many times a man had both his wives listed, so you could tell he’d been widowed. Others had a few lines of verse denoting their sadness in their departed loved ones but hopes for an eventual reunion in Heaven and rest from their earthly toils.
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Headstone Verses, photo by Ruth Axtell
Asleep in Jesus!  Blessed sleep, 
From which none ever wake to weep! 
A calm and undisturbed repose, 
Unbroken by the last of foes.
Many of the tombstones not only listed the age of the departed one in years, but in years, months and days! I was amazed to see two who had died in the 1830s who’d lived to 90 and another to 86. There must have been something in the water! More common were deaths in people’s twenties, thirties, or sixties (in the mid-1800s). Some were children’s gravestones.
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90 years, 7 months, 21 days. Photo by Ruth Axtell
It’s fascinating to think about these many lives before us. People who walked these same roads (rutted horse tracks back then, I’m sure) or sailed the seas I see out my kitchen window. They must have been quite hardy and long suffering.
 
What are some of the thoughts old cemeteries and gravestone inscriptions invoke for you?

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Ruth Axtell's new Historical Romance,
Her Good Name.

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Her Good Name
Moody River North, Aug 2012

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1890 - Maine 
In the 1890 thriving coastal town of Holliston, Maine, the leading lumber baron's son, Warren Brentwood, III, returns from his years away at college and traveling to take up his position as heir apparent to his father's business empire. 
 
Esperanza Estrada is the daughter of a Portuguese
immigrant fisherman who has grown up surrounded by a brood of brothers and sisters and a careworn mother. Unable to pretend she is anything but "one of those Estradas," Espy has no chance with Warren, no matter how striking she is. When she overhears of a position to clean house at a local professor's home on Elm Street, she jumps at the opportunity, hoping to be able to run into Warren Brentwood now and again as well as to imbibe the cultural and intellectual atmosphere of the Stocktons.

When rumors about Espy and this respected, married gentleman of the community begin to circulate, the entire church congregation and then the community pronounce judgment on her behavior. The man Espy is in love with, Warren, believes the lie and his loss of faith in her  causes Espy to give up without a fight. She leaves her family and hometown for the nearest city with little money and no acquaintances and is forced to spend the night on the street. A man who heads a mission for the homeless finds Espy and offers her shelter. Espy finds the true love of God while working at the mission. Will she be able to forgive the townspeople and return home?

Sample Excerpt

More about Ruth:
It was a long road to publishing, a journey as much spiritual as dependent on learning the craft of writing. Ruth studied comparative literature at Smith College with a concentration in French and English literature, and spent her junior year in Paris. After college, she spent a year in the Canary Islands as an au pair. Shortly after coming back to the U.S., she committed her life to Christ. Fourteen years later, she committed her writing to Him. Since then she has lived in the Netherlands and on the coast of Maine.

She was a Golden Heart finalist in 1994. Her second published book, Wild Rose, was a  Booklist “Top Ten Christian Fiction” selection in 2005. Her books have been translated into Dutch, Italian, Polish, Czech and Afrikaans. She is a member of ACFW (American Christian Fiction Writers), RWA (Romance Writers of America) and its local Maine chapter. 

Her Good Name, a historical romance set on the 1890s Maine coast, from River North/Moody Publishers will be her first book under Ruth Axtell. In March 2013, Moonlight Masquerade, a regency romance set in London, will be out with Baker/Revell Books.

You can find Ruth online at:

http://christianregency.com/blog/

https://www.facebook.com/ruth.axtell1
http://ruthaxtell.blogspot.com/

Susan Mason
8/12/2012 11:36:03 am

Hi Ruth,

I love graveyards and cemeteries! It's so interesting reading the stones, especially when there are bits of stories attached. And a great way to get names!

I love your writing and am so looking forward to your new book which looks wonderful. If Canadians are allowed in the draw, please enter me!! Thanks!

Cheers,
Sue

Ruth Axtell link
8/13/2012 01:59:59 am

Hi Sue, Thanks for stopping by. I'm so glad you like my stories. This is my first single title (longer book) in a few years, so I'm pretty excited about it.
Yes, Canadians are allowed in the draw (U.S. & Canada only, please).

Frances Devine link
8/20/2012 12:48:40 am

Love the aritcle. Old gravestones are so fascinating.

Vickie Taylor
8/12/2012 11:56:09 am

There's an old cemetery in my town where I jog sometimes. I, too, have found it's a great way to come up with names for the characters in my stories.

Ruth Axtell link
8/13/2012 02:00:58 am

And then you know the names are authentic!

Frances Devine
8/20/2012 12:50:23 am

That's interesting. Vickie. I used to live a half-block from a cemetary and did my walking there, stoppig now and then to check the old stones.

Lane Hill House link
8/12/2012 04:38:47 pm

Ruth, One piece of history, my own, was when a cousin took me to a cemetery where our relatives are buried when we were at a family reunion nearby. She explained to me that a family could not afford a tombstone and our relative allowed them to engrave their information on the back of their family plot stone and be buried there. How giving! Kathleen
(I would love to win your book!!)

Lane Hill House link
8/12/2012 04:40:00 pm

lanehillhouse[at]centurylink[dot]net
(forgot to add it; Kathleen)

Veronica Leigh link
8/13/2012 01:50:05 am

The cemetery looks gothic and mysterious. It reminds me a little of where my family is buried.
Congratulations on your new book. It sounds fantastic. Please enter me into this drawing. Thank you.

Ruth Axtell link
8/13/2012 02:04:10 am

Kathleen, That was resourceful of your ancestors. I found at my ancestors' grave sites (the 2 I visited), there was was central large fancy headstones, sometimes listing all the members, and then just little flat, stone markers on the grass around it, where the individual coffins would be buried.
Veronica, Yes, it is pretty gothic, esp. when you consider it's surrounded on two sides by dark, spruce forest!

Stephanie Grace Whitson link
8/13/2012 03:14:29 am

Wandering old cemeteries is a favorite pastime. I always said that if I ever collected anything, it would be epitaphs. One of my favorites is from a 17th century graveyard. "Died of thin shoes." There's a story there!

Ruth Axtell
8/14/2012 03:57:30 am

Love it!

ladysaotome
8/13/2012 04:02:06 am

I love wandering old cemeteries. In fact, my family gifted me with an amazing book that explains many of the symbols on old tombstones. (Stories in Stone: A Field Guide to Cemetery Symbolism and Iconography) I agree, it's sad to see so many stones falling over or broken. I've even debated speaking to the city about it and finding out if there's a historical society to join to do something about it. The church I grew up in had a section in the back of the cemetery where the graves were covered with little wooden roofs. Apparently an entire wagon train had died while passing through and the church buried everyone and made the wagons into the little rooftops. How sad. I love to think about the lives of the people, the stories behind the symbols and inscriptions.

Stephanie Whitson link
8/14/2012 04:38:16 am

Soul in the Stone is another good one. And for those who like to tramp through old cemeteries, John Thomas Grant's web site is fascinating. He specializes in cemetery photography. We've all scene spectacular sculptures, etc. Grant captures them like an artist.

Anita Mae
8/18/2012 04:00:45 am

Oh wow, Stephanie, thanks for the info on Soul in the Stone as well as John Thomas Grant's webs site. Good stuff. :)

Anita Mae
8/18/2012 03:59:17 am

As you can tell from my website here, I'm working on the family's genealogy and that involves a lot of headstone hunting.

Thank you for mentioning the book, Stories in Stone. I'll keep an eye open for it. :)

Amy C
8/15/2012 05:53:40 am

I am a history and genealogy nut and love old cemeteries. I have spent many times in different ones. It's fascinating to read different inscriptions. Some sad, some uplifting. Some families were unable to pay for a tombstone and used a rock to mark the grave. At one cemetery been to, the mowers got tired of mowing around those rocks and tossed them out. Breaks my heart to hear that.

Anita Mae
8/18/2012 04:06:18 am

Amy, you bring up a very good point. I always understood that the money you spend in buying a gravesite went toward perpetual care and upkeep. I guess it wasn't always that way by the state of many graveyards. Or did they just stop caring?

This point was driven home to me on the recent ancestry.com show where Lionel Ritchie found the grave of his 2 or 3 x g-grandfather and the state of disrepair of that graveyard - out in a bush where you could barely see the headstones - stays with me. Every time I do a 'find a grave' search for an ancestor, I wonder what the photo will show.

Thanks for sharing. :)

Patty
8/16/2012 12:18:43 am

My grandfather passed away last year at the age of 106! This spring we went back to his hometown in PA and wandered through two cemeteries looking far family names, it was so interesting! With no remaining close family in that area it's not someplace I would likely visit again,so it was nice to see that they were pretty well maintained. I would make up stories in my mind about the people who's names I might recognize but knew nothing about!

Patty

Patty

Anita Mae
8/18/2012 04:17:14 am

Patty, the day after I posted Ruth's post here, I went into the city with the family. But when Dad and the boys went to see a matinee with friends, I went to the city cemetery to find the Draper plot. Hubby had taken pics of the large headstone which listed his g-grandfather and numerous others, but I'd read somewhere that there were other headstones in the same plot.

The Draper plot was like a triangle, but curved on the inside where a circular road surrounded the military plots. As one of the 4 corner plots, it was very easy to find. I pass the entrance to this cemetary many times as it's right downtown, but all I saw before was a mass of headstones. Now that I'm working on the Draper genealogy, I feel bad that I hadn't gone looking before since it was so easy to find.

But to get back on track... yes, there were additional headstones in the plot which have the dates of some of hubby's cousins who he hadn't kept track of. Quite a revelation. I think I'll go back. :)

Elyssa
8/16/2012 12:24:56 am

Wow, those are some old headstones! Where I live there are some pretty old ones that date back to the 1700s, but most of them are neglected and you can barely read them. But there are some interesting names in the cemeteries, that's for sure!

Thanks for the great giveaway- this book looks awesome! =)

Anita Mae
8/18/2012 04:26:29 am

Hey Ellysa, you bring up another good point - the effects that wind and rain have on headstones. I never thought about it until we moved out here to Saskatchewan and saw what the wind does just after a couple years. The stone my husband's father bought for his wife is not even 20 yrs old and already the company who provided it has had to come out and clean it since it's part of the contract. The thing is, although it's been cleaned, the letters aren't being redone so it's still getting hard to read. And that's the effect of the prairie wind since this headstone is out in a small prairie cemetery.

Because of that, on my recent walk in the Regina city cemetery, I took a walk around specifically looking at and taking pics of the materials. The limestone ones were illegible. And vandals had broken the 3" thick ones. But the ones that seem to have withstood time are the big granite ones with the shiny, smooth surface. I bet they're the most expensive too, huh.

Thanks for sharing.

Beth C
8/16/2012 12:25:57 am

Thanks for the chance to win this book! I enjoy reading about this time period. I also love old cemeteries.
pbclark(at)netins(dot)net

Anita Mae
8/18/2012 04:32:10 am

You're welcome, Beth. Thanks for commenting.

Julie S
8/16/2012 12:34:25 am

Ruth, I do like your books and this one looks especially intriguing.

Just had to write a cemetery scene for a writing class and based it on our old family graveyard. What memories it brought back. Thanks for this great post.

Peace, Julie

Anita Mae
8/18/2012 04:34:37 am

Julie, I'm sure you did a splendid job because the best writing comes from what you know and remember.

Yes, I agree. Ruth did a great job with this post. :)

Ruth Axtell
8/19/2012 05:55:38 am

Thanks, Julie!

Emily R
8/16/2012 12:58:18 am

I've seen some pretty old graves before...there are quite a few in the cemetery near my house. The books looks really great! Can't wait to read it!!! Thanks so much for the giveaway!!!

Anita Mae
8/18/2012 04:36:47 am

You're welcome, Emily. I have to admit though, as much as I like visiting cemeteries in the daylight, I don't think I'd feel comfortable living close to one. Especially now that they all have those little candles that stay on forever. Downright spooky.
Anita.

Debbie
8/16/2012 01:00:29 am

Wow, those are some really old ones! I've seen quite a few on my own family history search...none of my family just yet, but I've searched with a friend. It's really interesting to see them, almost like going back in time. You get to imagine what their lives were like....my overactive imagination working there...lol! Thanks for the giveaway! Can't wait to read it!

Anita Mae
8/18/2012 07:54:07 am

I'm with you on this one, Debbie. I love to imagine who they were.

The city cemetery has a booklet for a walking tour where they've posted signs for headstones of important people in Regina's history. I thought it interesting that the first one on the tour is not for the first person who died in Regina, but for the first person born in the new settlement of Regina. Although I didn't walk the whole tour, I stood by that first headstone and imagined what it was like to be born in a small community on the open prairie where there wasn't even a tree around for miles, and the only water was a seasonal creek. And that's the image I try to convey in one of my stories. :)

John
8/16/2012 01:02:28 am

Really cool post...I'm totally into all that stuff. It's like walking the pathways of the past in a sense. Really awesome!

Thanks for the chance to win as well! My daughter would probably be interested...

Anita Mae
8/18/2012 04:38:00 am

"walking the pathways of the past"

Excellent, John. What a decent way to put it! Thanks.

Rachelle Rea link
8/16/2012 01:50:46 am

WOW. What phenomenal pictures you have here, rich in history, steeped in mystery. I've seen this book around and would love to win a copy! Thank you for the opportunity. (Also, I saw the cover for A Moonlight Masquerade somewhere recently and oohed and ahhed over it. Stellar!)

biblioprincess15 (at) yahoo (dot) com

Anita Mae
8/18/2012 04:40:55 am

Rachelle, thanks for bringing MOONLIGHT MASQUERADE to my attention. I'd missed that one. And you're right. The cover is gorgeous!

Yup, I've thrown your name into the hat along with the rest of them. Thanks for commenting. :)

Ruth Axtell
8/19/2012 05:57:24 am

I had a bunch more photos--this was just the tip of the iceberg, so to speak, but I didn't want the blog post to be too long! I didn't know the topic would be of such interest.

Kimberly link
8/16/2012 03:13:33 am

I haven't been to a cemetery in a long time, but I remember wondering about the people based on the inscriptions on their headstones.
kimberlyj503(at)gmail(dot)com

Anita Mae
8/18/2012 05:10:46 am

Me too, Kimberly. Like the ones with the verses that Ruth mentions above, or the ones with angels where you know it's a child.

On the Draper family headstone, one of the inscriptions reads, "She was faithful to her trust even unto death." At first I thought this puzzling, but given that she was buried under her maiden name, and that all my research never turned up a spouse, I've come to the conclusion that she chose to stay at home - on the farm - rather than marry. Perhaps she never found anyone that made her pulse race? I don't know yet, but as I publish the letters of her brother, Noah, and his intended, I keep a special watch for Jennie to see what the real story was behind the inscription.

Thanks, Kimberly.

Liz R
8/16/2012 01:44:30 pm

Thanks for the chance to win this book! Graveyards freak me out a little bit but I did get to see some interesting grave sites and memorial stones during my senor trip to England a few years back. My favorites would have to be the memorial stone for Thomas More.

Anita Mae
8/18/2012 05:21:06 am

Liz, I gotta admit, I had to google Thomas More. And now that I have, I can't believe he coined the word, "utopia" back in 1516. WOW!

I suppose his headstone would have some moss growing on it? At the city cemetery here, I could immediately tell which graves were over a hundred years old because the bases were coated with dark lines and orange lichen. I'm not sure if the orange lichen are everywhere, but I noticed the same colorings when I found the cornerstones of a Hudson's Bay fort in the Touchwood Hills last spring.

Since Regina only became a community in 1882 when the Canadian West was being opened for settlement, the earliest graves aren't any older than 130 yrs old.

I would love to walk in a centuries old cemetery some day.

Ganise
8/16/2012 11:16:10 pm

Good morning,
Oh my this is quite something. I'm with you Liz! Graveyards are a bit scary for me.. but isn't it something to look at those stones and to realize that these people actually lived?

Thanks for the giveaway!

Anita Mae
8/18/2012 05:23:33 am

Ganise, when hubby took our young adult daughter through the city cemetery, she was eager to check it out, but he could tell she was jittery about the whole thing, too.

Jenny
8/17/2012 12:44:04 am

Awesome post! My family has deep roots in the town that I live in, and in surrounding towns as well. There is a Revolutionary War soldier in the family whose headstone is so old that they had to put another one nearby to identify who it was! Pretty crazy how that works...
Thanks for the chance to win this book! It looks really good!

Anita Mae
8/18/2012 07:15:44 am

Jenny, that would make an awesome post! Especially if you knew the history of the soldier, how he died, etc.

I welcome all types of postings like this.

Jenny
8/19/2012 10:57:40 pm

Anita Mae, I'm sorry for not responding right away- I just saw this! I really don't know much about the man, only that he was about 101 when he passed away. My daughter, my mom, and I have been meaning to get to the town (not too far from where we live) where he is buried to get more info on him. The church records should help there! I'd be more than happy to share anything I find out if you'd be interested! =) I have some very interesting ancestors and stories along with them... 2 Civil War soldiers that died are included!

Anita Mae
8/21/2012 07:10:45 am

Sounds good, Jenny. I'll be sending you an email about it one of these days. :)

The Jesus Freak
8/17/2012 12:46:45 am

Wow, how cool is that! I love everything about family names and the history there... there's not any old headstones that date far back in my family here in America, but I still find it fascinating!

Thanks for the great giveaway!

Anita Mae
8/18/2012 07:27:30 am

I feel weird calling you Jesus Freak, but here goes... with the far reaching capabilities of the internet these days, you don't need to let distance stop you from finding headstones or other genealogical information of non-North American family members.

There are numerous sites that have a list of volunteers for certain graveyards who are willing to search out a headstone and take a photo and record the information for you.

Of course, the effectiveness of this system depends on volunteers, so if you live near a graveyard, consider the possibility of having your name stand on one of these lists. At the very least, it will give you a reason to snoop in a graveyard and take pics. At the best, someone will do the same for you in a graveyard far away.

Ruth Axtell link
8/17/2012 02:24:32 am

Probably the eeriest (not so much creepy) cemetery I ever visited was the one beside the Brontes' parish in Haworth in Yorkshire, England. I was researching a book at the time. But everything about that cemetery--and knowing something about the Brontes' lives and early deaths--seemed sad & eery. The cemetery was shaded by big old trees and there were a lot of black ravens (which I made sure to include in my story, Dawn in my Heart!)

Anita Mae
8/18/2012 07:31:45 am

Creepy, indeed, Ruth. And I probably shouldn't say this, but it makes sense after watching the 1930 and 1940 versions of Wuthering Heights and Jane Eyre this year. I have to admit both movies left me with a creepy feeling.

But then, perhaps it was because there wasn't a cowboy to be found in either one. LOL

Darlene Keith
8/17/2012 10:23:45 am

As a genealogist I love going to graveyards, especially where there are old stones. It is one of the quietest most peaceful places I can go. My husband and I have reset several of the old ones that no one cares about any more. This book looks like a winner. I would love to be the winner :D! Thanks for the opportunity and count me in.

Anita Mae
8/18/2012 07:39:22 am

Darlene, that sounds like a good thing to do. In the Regina city cemetery, the grass is mown and everything is well kept, but I could see the destruction from a few years ago when anti-Jewish vandals went about desecrating every headstone that may or may not have been Jewish, based on the name.

Several of the damaged pieces were placed beside the actual headstones, but others were missing parts. One had only the base and a partial top, but without words, it could have belonged to anyone.

Still, I think with fondness of the people who went about the cemetery clearing the damage and trying to set the headstones back in place. Kudos to you for helping.

Carol Gehringer
8/17/2012 10:44:08 am

My first date was in a cemetery! The high school boy of a family friend invited me to go on a walk. We read lots of interesting gravestones on that walk. Can't wait to read you book!

Anita Mae
8/18/2012 07:41:43 am

Oh Carol, LOL. It doesn't sound like you married the guy. If you had, I'm sure that's one story your descendents love to relay. :)

Marissa
8/17/2012 01:57:55 pm

I don't like graveyards very much. I went to an Indian burial ground once and it was very sad to see the little tiny graves.

I would love to win this book! I've never read any of Ruth's books before!

marissamehresman(at)aol(dot)com

Anita Mae
8/18/2012 07:48:06 am

Marissa, I don't blame you. I don't think I'd feel comfortable walking through an Indian burial ground, either. For me, I think it's because I've seen too many movies about the spiritual side of Native Americans or First Nations, as we call them in Canada. According to the movies, a burial ground is sacred land and only certain people are welcome there.

Add that to my Christian background, and I know anything is possible. It's probably the same reason I don't feel comfortable walking in a graveyard after dark. My imagination runs amok and I run for my life.

Michelle Sutton link
8/17/2012 03:06:51 pm

Old graveyards are fascinating.

Anita Mae.
8/18/2012 07:55:00 am

Hey there, Michelle. I completely agree. :)

Samantha Kuiper
8/18/2012 01:06:53 am

One of my favorite places to walk is in a graveyard. I like to read all the older tombstones and imagine what their stories were.
Thank you for the opportunity to win Ruth's book!
samanthaakuiper(at)gmail(dot)com

Anita Mae
8/18/2012 07:57:56 am

Your welcome, Samantha. I'm really blessed that Ruth has posted on my blog and graciously offered a copy of her new release.

Thanks for stopping by. I've thrown your name in the hat with the others. :)

Nancee
8/18/2012 02:30:18 am

I live a half block from a cemetery that has been in this area for approximately 200 years. It's wonderful walking through the older portion of the cemetery and reading some of the grave markers. The designs on the tombstones are beautiful and simplistic, and I enjoy reading the names. Thanks for offering this giveaway!
Nancee
quiltcat26[at]sbcglobal[dot]net

Ruth Axtell
8/19/2012 06:01:36 am

Hi Nancee, That cemetery sounds as old as this one I photographed. I agree about a lot of the designs of headstones & tombstones.

Pat Iacuzzi link
8/18/2012 02:17:25 pm

Hi Ruth and Anita--

What a great opportunity! I've been a consistent fan of Ruth's stories, and would love to win her latest.

In reference to the graveyards; they're great for research especially if they have information about the family, or if an illness took many more of a town's population.

My mother and I often visited graveyards in the Adirondack region of N.Y. where we're from. I loved those very old, very flat thin stones dating well back before the Revolution. Great discussion and thank you for the giveaway! God bless you!

partwright2000{at}yahoo{dot}com

Ruth Axtell
8/19/2012 05:59:58 am

Hi Pat! I recognize your name.

Dawn Crandall link
8/18/2012 08:57:04 pm

I love Ruth's books, I love Downeast Maine, and I love graveyards!!! I love searching the stones for interesting bits of info and just plain taking in all those names.

Anita Mae
8/21/2012 07:13:05 am

I don't blame you, Dawn. I can imagine those Maine graveyards have a couple centuries worth of information over the ones up here on the Cdn prairies. You're blessed for sure. :)

Taimi Discala
8/19/2012 02:08:19 am

Reading all the interesting comments of graveyards - I live in the Somme France & so many graveyards - that wonder what really has War acchieved ? Boys of 17 & 19 in a nearby graveyard that were from all Nationalities died in the 1st world War , many , many more military cemetaries here - Australian, Canadian, British ect Very well kept , all of them- but so sad how those boys & men died Love reading all your letters Thanks Anita

Anita Mae
8/21/2012 07:09:35 am

Sorry I'm late announcing the winner, but family took precedence yesterday.

Alrighty then, all names received prior to Sunday midnight were assigned numbers and then a winner was chosen using Random.org and the winner of Ruth Axtell's new release, HER GOOD NAME, is...

Frances Devine!

Congrats, Frances. Ruth will be in touch with you concerning your postal details, so hang tight.

Thank you, Ruth Axtell, for graciously donating a copy of your new release to our giveaway. And thanks for the memorable post. It seems we all have more in common than we realize. :)

This week I'm posting another 1911 Courtship letter here on Author Memories, but the week after, come on back because Kathy Harris is holding a giveaway in conjunction with her post, Drive Thru Chicken. Hope to see you then.

Anita.

Anita Mae
8/21/2012 07:19:07 am

Auntie Taimi, it must be heartbreaking to see so many graveyards not only in France, but all over Europe where 2 world wars and so many smaller ones were fought. Such sorrow blazed on those stones.

Thank you for telling us the international military ones are well kept. At least that's a bit of comfort for the families who've lost loved ones and may not be able to visit due to the expense involved.

And thank you for dropping by to comment. Always a pleasure to see you here. :)


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