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Cat, Dog or Pony? & Winner's Choice Giveaway

5/13/2012

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Cat, Dog or Pony?

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What's your history with pets?

This early 50's photo of Uncle Paul, my mom's brother, gave me the idea for a post on pets - those animals we've loved and shared our homes with.

Although I don't know the names of Uncle Paul's cat and dog, they look similar to ones I've shared companionship with in the photos below of my childhood.

This photo reminds me of the dog Mamma and Pappa had during my visits with them. They called him Koira (with a rolled 'r'). I thought it was a beautiful name until Mamma said Koira is really the word 'dog' in the Finn language. 

Another photo of Paul when he was even younger, is the one below where he's standing with Valentine, a milk calf, who was only a couple days old.

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Young Paul with Valentine who was a couple days old when this was taken.
Back in the late '60s we lived in Port Arthur, Ontario (now Thunder Bay) at the head of Lake Superior. The summer before I turned 12 we moved to a farm 7 miles out and that's where the following photos were taken.

When we lived in town, Dad had bought us mini-bike, but we weren't allowed to drive it. Within a few weeks of moving to the farm, he'd traded the mini-bike to the neighbours for a pony.
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Anita Mae, 12 yrs old
Flicka was a Shetland pony and because Dad brought her home the day before my 12th birthday, I always - secretly - considered her my horse. It was just as well because none of the other kids wanted to ride or take care of her. It was possible they didn't want to put up with her antics.

When I look at the above photo now, I see that I was kind of big for her, but at the time she seemed the perfect size.  Except for her width. Shetlands are known for their wide bellies, which is why many people buy the narrower Welsh ponies for their kids. Sheltlands are also known for their...ah... not-so-nice dispostion. This proved true when Flicka put up such a fuss whenever I tried to give her the bit and then saddle her. I can't tell you how many times she nearly stepped on my toes while I was trying to tighten up the cinch. And that was another thing -  I never could get the cinch tight enough because she extended her belly and then seemed to suck it in later when I was bouncing around on her back.  Flicka never ran, she trotted everywhere and I'm sure I looked like a sack of potatoes up there. She almost lost me and the saddle a few times. But what I really didn't like was when she turned her head to snap at my knees without warning.

All things considered though, I had a horse and wasn't about to complain about it.

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Buttons in front with Peter 4, Bonnie 14, and Anita Mae 12,
The cat in this photo is Buttons. I remember someone handing Buttons to me on one of our moving trips to the farm. I was told to put a towel over her head so that she couldn't see where we were taking her or she'd try to make her way back home.

Buttons was a short-haired domestic with a nice disposition. Although I'm not a cat person, I didn't mind when Buttons jumped on my lap and cuddled while I read my books in my playhouse. There was no glass and Buttons would go through the window and sleep on the chair when I wasn't around. One time, I smelled skunk as I neared my playhouse. Buttons was lying on the chair, all perfumed up in the worst way. Of course my chair took on the odor. We tried bathing Buttons, but in the end decided to keep our skin and let her clean herself. It tooks weeks before I could go inside and read.

In the next photo, the outbuilding behind Johnny was my playhouse. Originally a grainary, it might have been used for a playhouse by the family who lived there before us. About 5'x5', it contained an over-stuffed chair and small bookcase although I can't remember if they were there when we moved in or if my parents moved them there from the house.

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Suzie with 9 yr old Johnny in 1969, Thunder Bay, Ontario

Dad brought Suzie home just after we moved to the farm. She was our guard dog and protector and was only let loose during the night. I didn't spend much time with her because I didn't like dog smell. And whenever I petted Suzie on the way to my playhouse, Buttons acted like I betrayed her.

Yet I felt safe knowing Suzie was protecting us. Especially after I saw a timber wolf out strolling near the barn one Saturday during the winter. A thick layer of snow already covered the ground and more was softly falling. I looked out the kitchen window and saw the grayish movement on the white landscape. That day was so still, it was eerie. The wolf padded across the snow toward the barn and then behind it. I don't know why Suzie didn't raise the alarm. Within seconds, the wolf appeared on the other side of the barn and kept going toward the west. That's my only wolf sighting to date and I'm fine with not seeing another one that close. I may have been in the safety of the house, but I knew danger when I saw it.

What about you? What pets did you have in your childhood? And if  you didn't have one, what would you have liked to have?


Related Author Memories posts with Pets or Playhouses:
Penny Zeller -
The Dream House (playhouse)
Christa Allan - Camellia Manor: Back to the 1840s (1890 photo of girl and cat)
Valerie Hansen -
Writin' and Ropin' (pony)
Jennifer AlLee -
A Girl's Best Friend (chihuahua saves the day)


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GIVEAWAY - Winner's Choice!
Leave a comment with a valid email address by midnight, May 20th
to be entered in a draw for a book from my giveaway pile.
If you're the winner, I'll email you the list and you can pick. 

The pile contains an assortment of books including inspirationals, mainstream,
autobiographies, self-help, devotionals and children's books, all new.

And yesterday I added the latest Dean Koontz novel, What the Night Knows, to the pile. 
Winner beware!
I haven't read Dean Koontz, but I understand his books are NOT of the inspirational genre, nor are they for the faint of heart.

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And how did I end up with a Dean Koontz novel? That's a story in itself...
If you read Regency, you probably know the works of NYT best selling author, Mary Balogh. Mary and I often travel to meetings of the Saskatchewan Romance Writers (SRW) together. This past Saturday when I stopped to pick her up, she thunked a small suitcase into the back of my van and told me she was running away from home. She was joking.

It turned out this generous author was bringing copies of her new hardcover novel,
The Proposal, as well as a paperback copy of Dean Koontz' latest novel,
What the Night Knows, to give each member in attendance.
(Lesson: if you don't attend the meeting, you might miss something great!) 

I took a photo of Mary signing her own book, and
another one with Mary holding her book with the cover facing us. 
I sent to the later one to Mary, and it now appears on her Facebook page  
as well as the official explanation of why she's promoting DK.
(Hint - she received his in error)
 
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10 Comments
Taimi Discala
5/16/2012 06:43:31 am

I loved the pictures of you , cat & pony ! How lovely - so nice to see your childhood photos !!Keep them coming , o k ? xx

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Anita Mae
5/16/2012 02:26:31 pm

Hey Aunt Taimi, I bet you didn't know I was the horse person in our branch of the family, eh. I guess that's why I write Western stories today. :D

I'll try to keep them coming. Running out of things to talk about though.

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Suzie Johnson
5/16/2012 01:20:48 pm

Anita, I'm still waiting for my dad to buy me a pony! They used to have Shetland Ponies in a field down the road when I was little. Now there's a KMart there. I miss the ponies. They're so cute, but I didn't know they were temperamental.

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Anita Mae
5/17/2012 01:27:39 pm

Suzie, Shetlands are cute but they are very tempermental.

Nowadays, miniature ponies are the ones you want for kids 6-7 and under. Many grandparents keep them around for their grandchildren. Even the miniatures can be tempermental though if they have Shetland genes. You can usually tell by their wide girths.

For older kids, Welsh ponies are the way to go.

Horses that are 14 hands high (HH) or less are called ponies based on size alone, even if they're full-size but small for the breed.

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DebH
5/17/2012 04:20:07 am

I love seeing the childhood pictures Anita. I think it was pretty cool that you got to have a pony (tempermental as it was). I never really was a horse person. I do remember we went through a bunch of stray dogs (I don't think my Dad liked pets) - until my parents were divorced. Then, we couldn't afford pets.
The one dog we three kids remember most was Pepper. He was a good little dog (a least what I could remember) He disappeared one day and never came back - according to Dad. I think Dad got tired of cleaning dog poo and took Pepper to the pound and gave us kids the story that he ran away. Sad really. Dad was sort of a bust as a Dad - but at least he found the Lord and became the best Grandpa ever before he passed.

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Anita Mae
5/17/2012 01:38:26 pm

Thanks, Deb. Pepper is a great name for a dog!

Some people just aren't pet people. I'm not crazy about dogs and cats, but I tolerate them because I know they give others pleasure. But some people don't like the hassle of upkeep. If a person isn't crazy about a cat, they'll hate every minute they have to take cleaning up after it. Especially if someone else was supposed to do the job and didn't.

If the kids of the family really wanted to keep the pet, they should make an effort taking care of it. You said a lot when you said your dad got tired of cleaning up after the dog. With 3 of you kids, why was your dad doing it?

Don't mean to be harsh or accusing, I'm just stating a fact. Hopefully, it'll make others think twice before bringing home something cute thinking others would love the upkeep for that reason alone. Na-uh.

So you weren't a horse person, huh? Considering your western background, who'da thought. :D

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DebH
5/17/2012 10:53:38 pm

hey there Anita
yeah, growing up in Colorado, one would think i would be all over that. (i do have a nephew who adores all things western) i think i wasn't a horse person because their size was so intimidating and also because i knew they were very expensive.

i do agree with you about pets. as for the three kids not cleaning up after the dog... well, my little brother was in diapers, i think i was about three and a half and my older brother was just starting kindergarten. i'm pretty sure he tried to help, but Dad was a bit particular about how to do outside stuff as well.

all i know is, my mom always made it clear if we wanted a pet, WE were in charge of its care. she always said the pet would be gone if we didn't care enough about it to take care of it. good lessons. still to this day, i think long and hard about getting a pet because it isn't fair to the pet either if you can't give it the love and attention it needs.

Anita mae
5/18/2012 12:11:42 am

Very good points, Deb.

It reminds me of two yuppie parents I saw in a shoe store once. They had 2 pairs of winter boots in front of a little girl who couldn't have been more than 4 yrs old. They were telling her to decide between the pretty pink fashion boots and the warm black ones made for our Canadian winters. The little girl looked longingly at the pink ones. I don't know how long they'd been there when I walked in - which could explain the hard tone to the parents' voices - but I felt like swatting both parents. They said things like, "You have to make a decision and stand by it. These boots are the only ones you'll get this year. If your feet freeze, you'll have to live with it." etc. Now, these are all valid concerns, but the girl was so small! Hardly old enough to understand the ramifications of a decision like that. At least, not in my books. I felt those parents were copping out of their duty. They were the adults and should have made the decision. At least she'd be safe and warm. But if she chose the fashion boots, those parents would've been nagging at her for 4 months. No fair!!!

Sorry. I saw that scene 3 yrs ago and it still rankles.

Anita Mae
5/21/2012 06:59:10 am

Well, this was a slow week here, which makes me appreciate the 3 or you all the more. Thank you for sharing with me.

With the help of random.org, the winner of this week's giveaway is...

DebH!

Congrats, Deb. I'll be in touch with my giveaway list.

This week on Author Memories I'm talking about the early Kodak cameras from 1888 to 1915. I'd be very pleased if you'd join me for that post, too. :)

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pet friendly accommodation link
7/12/2012 11:30:21 pm

This is really wonderful to saw your childhood memories with your loving pet. very nice theme

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